Hey Georgia,

This may seem a little over the top -- but I think it might be time to delve into a bit more of my psyche....maybe a reading?

Just have a 'sense' there is something MORE I should be paying attention to with this new (maybe NOT) fellow. I cannot stop thinking about him...(seems to be different than many men I have known - romantically or otherwise). I know you don't necessarily perform 'MAGIC'...(or do you hee - hee) ...but damn close girl! (grin) or perhaps it's something I should have been be paying attention (unknowingly) to that may have nothing to do with this new fellow.. and I need to be more present in MY 'Existence"

Bottom line -- I don't want to let a fabulous opportunity pass me by...ya know? And the more I talk to him, the more I want to share my time with him....i THINK i could do this!

,,,looking for a bit of a nudge (one way or the other!!! I CAN HANDLE THE TRUTH!!(just get in the freakin' car!)

Always,
S.

Dear Leo S,

You are funny

Relax

You don't need a reading.

You are just anxious and excited and nervous and hopeful and worried and afraid and eager.....

I can relate.

Of course, the enlightened approach is to have no hope and to have no fear..... the fewer expectations the better. You want to try to be in the moment as much as possible. (Easier said than done.)

Because whatever relationship you have with this guy will end - for sure. Finito.

All relationships end in the three D's - death, divorce, or desertion.

So it is just a matter of time - and time is the part we don't know about. .... days, weeks, months, years?

Therefore, he is a temporary lovely bouquet in your life. You don't need him. (He wasn't there before, right?)

Just enjoy him.... and enjoy yourself. And rejoice that you have at least met someone you are even THINKING about! (Shee girl! That in itself is something. Think of all the times you weren't thinking about anyone who cud really turn your crank.)

Count your blessings... and go forward slowly with as little judgment as possible. See what's for dinner....

Good luck!
Georgia